Formerly, it was considered that by nature it was the husband who gave orders. This retrograde culture based on machismo has evolved over time and thanks to the struggle of many women.
Traditionally it has been considered that in couple relationships there are two very well differentiated roles; that of the person who obeys and that of the person who commands.
To be more exact, before it was considered that, “by nature”, in a relationship, the man who should give the orders and guidelines was the man. Likewise, it was believed that the woman only served to follow what he indicated, maintain the home and take care of the children.
The historical tradition
Although machismo was the norm for a long time, today the landscape is changing, and with it, roles, social dynamics and beliefs.
Today, what is definitely sought is equality and that the old models are not copied in couple relationships. Among other things, because we know that the idea that one person commands and the other obeys without further ado is not healthy.
A good relationship must be based on mutual trust, sincerity and respect. Not in the dominance of one person over another.
However, machismo and inequality are realities that are still very much present and against which we must continue to fight. It should be noted that, although we may not believe it, inequality and machismo are not only present in heterosexual couples, but can even occur in homosexual couples.
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